Be Careful With Words

Simão Cunha
3 min readSep 21, 2020
Photo by Abhishek Babaria on Unsplash

They hurt, and after putting them out there, there is no turning back, there are no exceptions (that is, if you have a soul), if you don’t have it, there is nothing I can do for you, if you don’t know what you did wrong, I am not the person who have to tell you that you made a mistake, so I will not waste any more time with you, only you can find out.

Going back to people with a soul, hurting someone you love is hard, you start to think why the hell did I say that, and this is a good thing, it means you know you made a mistake and that you are sorry, it means you have learned the lesson, and you won’t doing or saying that again.

Let’s read a story based on real events…

There was a boy who had started dating a beautiful girl, this girl had recently left a long and toxic relationship, where she couldn’t do anything, where everything bad that happens in the relationship was her fault, because, according to the boy’s mother, he was perfect.
However, this new guy was not like her ex-boyfriend, even though he is a newbie in relationships, this guy had been raised to respect everything and everyone. During the relationship, there were good and less good times, times when she was still trying to expel what had happened in her previous relationship, he knew she had been severely hurt psychologically, he knew he had to be very careful not to hurt her again, he…